There is a little-know fact I'd like to let you in on: when a woman receives a therapeutic massage for one hour or more, she is likely to get aroused. I have spoken with countless women who have told me that they got aroused during a massage. They did not necessarily feel like jumping the bones of the masseur at Massage Envy, but they went home desiring sex, sensual interaction, or masturbation.
One time I was getting a facial treatment from an esthetician. She had me lying down on a massage table. Cool steam was blowing on my face. She applied cream after cream. After a while, I relaxed. Then she massaged my eyebrows. I got aroused. I was so surprised. I did not have any sensual inclination towards her. I realized that in that relaxed state, my eyebrows are an erogenous zone. I did not know that.
Generally speaking, a man can focus in on sex more quickly than a woman can. A woman needs someone to help her forget the busy details of the day. A massage is one way to do that. Think about it. Learn to massage your lady. Or gift her a massage very soon, and tell her to come on home afterwards.