Try cuddling with a little structure. This can be done with or without clothing. You can cuddle with a romantic partner or anyone who is willing to cuddle with you.* Eliminate all distractions. If you apologize to your cell phone for turning it off, you really need this. Lie down together. Decide who will be the nuturer. The nurturee puts his/her head on the nuturer's chest. Both cuddlers get comfy. Ahhhhhhh... Stay like that for as long as is mutually desired. Then switch positions.
Now, you may ask: "how will it feel for me?" I don't know the answer to that. You probably don't even know the answer. This is something that you must experience in order to find out how it feels. I remember doing this at a Puja (a Tantric experiential workshop). It felt nice. Yes, I used the word nice; I like that word!
Try cuddling your own way. Come back and let us know what happened! To do that, click on this entry. Then click on "Comments" and fill out the form. It's anonymous if you want it to be.
*If you offer to cuddle with the Dish Network Technician, he will blush. I already tried it.